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It’s Complicated: Attachment styles and how to change them

Dear Reagan,I want to know how I can be more secure in my relationships. Every time I find myself interested in someone, I avoid getting too close or attached to them to avoid getting hurt. How do I overcome that fear and just let myself be loved? -Get Out Before I Get Hurt Dear Get […]

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It’s Complicated: Three’s a Crowd

Dear Reagan, I matched with a couple on Tinder and they messaged me shortly thereafter. How in the world do I flirt with them? Do I have to address both of them in things I say? Help! — Looking and Lost Dear Looking,I think the first order of business is to figure out exactly what the […]

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It’s Complicated: The Un-PC Professor

[et_pb_section][et_pb_row][et_pb_column type=”4_4″][et_pb_text] Dear Reagan, I’m currently in a class with a challenging professor, personality-wise. Every once in a while they make comments that seem completely off-base and off-topic. We’ll be talking about something totally unrelated and they find a way to make some snide comment about people who are in protected classes, like making jokes […]

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It’s Complicated: Regional Marriage Pressure

To hell with what my Bishop says, I have zero interest in getting married in my early 20s. But people get married so young around here… I worry despite myself about having options later. Advice? -AG  Dear AG, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is self-described as “family-centered.” Not only that, but marriage […]

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It’s Complicated: How to identify and report sexual assault

Dear Reagan, If I or a friend experience sexual harassment or sexual assault on campus, or aren’t sure that we have, where can we turn? Dear reader, According to a Campus Climate Survey done in 2017, almost 1 in 3 female students and 1 in 7 male students have experienced some form of sexual misconduct […]

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It’s Complicated: Better or just better dishwasher?

Dear Reagan, My wife never does the dishes. We tend to split up who makes dinner pretty evenly. With both of us in school and working, our schedules are very different during the day so we hardly ever eat breakfast and lunch together. Every night when I come home there are dishes left in the […]

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It’s Complicated: Crushing on another girl

Reagan advises a student who wants to ask another woman out, but doesn’t know if she’s into girls.

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It’s Complicated: Reagan talks handholding

Dear Reagan, My girlfriend really hates holding my hand. She says they get too sweaty for her, but I really enjoy the closeness I get from holding her hand. Is there anything I can do about this or do I just have to be resigned to never getting what I want again? Best, Full Heart, […]

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It’s Complicated: Reagan tackles slut-shaming

Dear Reagan, I’ve been single for a while now and have gotten pretty comfortable with it—except I am no longer having sex. I’d like to pursue sexual relationships, but I’m worried my friends or others will judge me if I pursue this course of action. I’m also not entirely sure how I’d go about it […]

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It’s Complicated: Reagan offers flirting tips

Dear Reagan,How do I indicate to someone I don’t know very well that I find them attractive? Flirting is hard enough as it is, but lately, I’ve found that I’m hesitant to approach women for fear that I’ll come off as overly forward or creepy. Any advice?Cordially,Bearded and Bored Dear Bearded, The initial stages of […]

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