Comments on: The Breakup http://www.uvureview.com/2012/09/10/the-breakup/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=the-breakup Utah Valley University's student run newspaper Mon, 10 Jun 2013 06:50:32 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5.1 By: Broken man http://www.uvureview.com/2012/09/10/the-breakup/#comment-22894 Broken man Sun, 16 Sep 2012 10:06:54 +0000 http://www.uvureview.com/?p=24245#comment-22894 Your desire to break up without giving a reason suggests that you may struggle with confrontation. Maybe even with communication as a whole. It seems that your reasoning omits his feelings. For any relationship to be successful you will need to be capable of expressing frustrations and then be willing to work/ discuss with the significant other how you can improve your relationship.

I’m sure you’ve come across serious reasons to break up, but I promise you that if you end every relationship without explaining why you will miss out on something wonderful. Often people don’t know why they bother or frustrate others. When someone is in love, they will change habits to please the one they love. This is essential to any successful relationship and it is called compromise. Nothing makes a couple feel closer and stronger than sucessfully overcoming hard times through compromise. You learn…

]]> By: anonymous http://www.uvureview.com/2012/09/10/the-breakup/#comment-22893 anonymous Sun, 16 Sep 2012 09:46:53 +0000 http://www.uvureview.com/?p=24245#comment-22893 It appears to me that you’re approaching dating like a business and omitting essential cinsideration for human emotion. You cant date a guy, and drop him without some sort of explanation as to why. I understand that you may have legitimately found things about him that you do not like, and you have every right to break up with him. Remember though, that his feelings for you are likely to be strong. When you make the breakoff official, he will be hurt and self confidence will be damaged. The first question that comes to mind is always “what’s wrong with me?” It you’ve ever had to ask yourself that question before, then you know how painful that can be. It is fairly cold to damage another person without reason. If you want to break up, you MUST have some reason and he deserves to know why. Why is a man expected to achieve perfection without feedback? How can a man ever become what a…

]]> By: Preston Hunter http://www.uvureview.com/2012/09/10/the-breakup/#comment-22877 Preston Hunter Fri, 14 Sep 2012 20:21:33 +0000 http://www.uvureview.com/?p=24245#comment-22877 Dear Tiffany,

I know in my case that I often want to know the reason why because there is obviously something that the girl just doesn’t like about me. And I would like to know if it is something that she just doesn’t like or if its something that I need to improve on.
Now, I think the confusion comes in here when guys want to know what is wrong and want to fix the issue in order to keep the relationship alive.
If you’re not happy with the guy you’re dating and want to break up with him, guys need to learn that a relationship is over but that it is still worth knowing how they can continue to become their best selves for when the right gal comes along.
Don’t we as men deserve to know how to become better? That critique often only will come from the honesty of our female friends! But we must also learn to let a relationship go in order to grow and be ready for that special…

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